Of all the fears
we carry to our grave, fears that we picked from our childhood dominates other
fears. Do you agree with me? None is an exception in this aspect. As children,
we are more prone to develop fears because of our limited understanding
capacity.
We could not
understand the behavior of other children of our same age, our parent’s
admonitions etc. It applies to our reasoning capacity in terms of identifying
what is rational or irrational. May be
that is why childhood fears are always cited as irrational fears.
Nevertheless, we
need to understand developing fear is completely normal. Irrational fears are
more commonly known as childhood fears since they are not triggered by actual
material world and are often imaginary.
It is an effect
caused by the development of a child's mental and emotional activity, as well
as exposure to new people or environment. However, a few also insist that
childhood fears must be conquered as it can potentially be harmful and limiting
for the child. I agree with this view.
How do you overcome
childhood fears?
Most individuals
who suffer from childhood fears do not really learn to let go of that fear and
as a result carry that fear with them even when they're grown up. This level of
fear is often categorized as childhood trauma .
Here are two effective ways to face and
conquer childhood fears that I happen to read recently. I am reproducing them
here.
Confronting Fears
Recognizing fears
is your first step towards finding overcoming it. Unless you identify the
source of your fears, you will never be able to find a solution or treatment
for it. Since most childhood fears are irrational, it is best to talk about it
with your friends or family members. Talking enables you to release any
emotional burden that you experience as an effect of these childhood fears.
Though it seem rather easy, talking about your childhood fears to other people
is never easy. However, you need to be open with this idea in order to relieve
any tension.
Seeking Professional Help
If you are not
open to the idea of discussing your fears with family or friends, then seeking
professional help is the best step towards overcoming childhood fears.
Psychological experts are equipped with the proper training and knowledge that
would help people suffering from fears and traumas to release their fears. You
can also benefit from seeking psychological help in order to deal with your
childhood issues and let go of any fears that you had to deal with over the
years.
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